Handle/Nurse mate Debbie


I have been a truckers wife 5 years now just long enough to dis-connect from a 15 year marrage. No kids and running my business and a small farm. When he comes home for 2 days if that the world needs to stop and it's all about his time at home, packing his bags to leave again. No personal time at all. I'm thinking lifes too short for this but hubby claims thats all he can do for a pay check right now.

The company he works for treats him really bad and when we do talk on the phone he's kussing and freaking out about what they are doing to him. If I fuss about anything he says he has it worse what he's doing. Trust me I'am suffering along with him but he thinks I have it made being at home.....

I could go on and on but It's the same old thing week after week. To top it off I moved from my family 14 years ago to his home town in KY where no one knows me. Having to make new friends.

This might be a good lead for me. All I know is something has to give soon !!!!!
Truly yours, NURSE MATE DEBBIE

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May 19, 2011
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home time
by: Anonymous

yup i agree if you want him and love him, listen to the complkaints when he is on the road with compassion and when he gets home hug him kiss him give him some space to unwind. then lovey dovey him with dinner and fun like honeymooners each time he is home and you will keep him.

May 06, 2011
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Moving
by: Anonymous

Debbie, I feel your pain. Hubby and I moved to a new county 9 years ago where I didn't know anyone and now hubby went off to be OTR driver.
He emailed me on April 8 saying he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I didn't think things could get much worse. Haven't heard from him in almost 2 weeks. I don't know if he is dead or alive. At least you still have a husband. I've been married for 31 years. Just embrace your hubby when he comes home and tell him how much you love him.

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