How do I start trusting my Husband again after continously finding pictures of naked women on my Husbands phone?
by S.
(MN)
My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. Hes an otr trucker. Hes an over the road trucker for 8 months now. He has been caught contacting women on craigslist sending and receiving pictures and very explicit sexual content.
His defense was he thought about them but wasn't going to do anything with them. He says it keeps a man going. Last month while he was asleep I looked at his phone that went off. A women had sext him.
He apologized as he has done before and promises not to do it again. Is there anyway to get him interested in just me? I love him.
Ive moved out of state with him almost a year ago leaving my family, children whom are in their later teens and a hometown I was in for 40yrs.
Now I'm alone all the time he is home one day every 3 weeks or so. No sexual talk or interest in me while hes home or when hes in the road like it used to be his first 5 months he started otr truckin.
Now the past 4 months have gone to little or no talk or interest in me. How do I get this back or is it time to give up?
Please help how do I interest him again and how do I stop his interest in other women.
Ive never had this problem our first three years of our relationship.