Husband has new desires in the bedroom

My husband has been a trucker for a couple years. Lately every time he comes back home he wants sex and wants to see me have sex with other men.

This is something new. He used to be the type that never thought about sex and now that’s all he wants to do.

I feel so over whelm with the thought of having other men in our bedroom. Never in a million years I would think my husband of 12 years wanted such sex life.

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Apr 22, 2018
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It's amazing!
by: Anonymous

I will re-iterate... it was amazing. Couples that get divorced can never truly blame just one. It takes two in any relationship not just marriage. This is not my first marriage and while I'd love to blame my divorce from my previous marriage entirely on him, it wouldn't be honest or fair. How many other, non-sexual things did her husband suggest or try prior to this request to rekindle our add to their relationship? Do we know? Do we know her, other than what she wrote about her husband? Does she take care of her man? Welcome him home with a smile? Or complaints? Does she make him feel important? Needed? Desired? Wanted? Or does she only expect him to make her feel that way? You really shouldn't make judgment on sex based on what all girls are taught growing up...ie: only makes want sex, porn is dirty, masturbation is wrong, girls don't have sex drives, etc. It took me a long time to realize that it's perfectly ok that I want sex every day, it doesn't make me a slut or a whore. Wake up ladies and take responsibility for your part in your marriages, and if you do, you may not have him coming home suggesting things that you aren't interested in, maybe you'll be the one doing the suggesting.

Apr 21, 2018
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This posting is freaky
by: Anonymous

I am a brand new minted trucker's wife and I can't believe what I just saw and I hope mine never comes home with this idea and plan, it just freaked me out when I saw this!!

Apr 21, 2018
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To it's amazing!
by: Anonymous

If you had other men in the bedroom having sex with you, how is that showing your husband that you belong to him? Being married to these type of guys is mind boggling and challenging and nerve wracking. I work in a large office where 3 women were married to truckers and 2 are divorced from their trucker husbands and the 3rd woman was in the process of getting a divorce but hers died before the divorce proceedings and when I offered my condolences and telling her I was sorry to hear about his passing, she told me not to be sorry, she was not, and mine has been trucking for 1 year, been married 20 years, both kids are in college, have no pets, so, so far I have no complaints about mine being a trucker but these 3 co-workers told me to give it time, that I, too, will be joining them later as a divorcee of a trucker, the stories I have heard from these women of their husbands is unbelievable. And the receptionist is single and she was telling us girls that she was in the laundry room of her apartment building and this guy came in, a new tenant, and she said he was really hot looking and they started a conversation and as soon as he told her he was an OTR trucker, she blew up in his face and told him to get the f**k out of here and she told him she would never go out with him if someone paid her because of his job, poor guy, but she said now when she looks out her window, that guy is putting his laundry in the car and taking it to a laundromat instead of running into her in the laundry room!!

Apr 16, 2018
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It's amazing!
by: Anonymous

My trucker husband and I did that, it was amazing! It actually brought us closer together.

For him it was knowing that I am his and his alone. For me, it was wonderful to receive all that attention.

Talk to him, let down and let go of societies prudish rules about sex, and enjoy yourself.

Apr 14, 2018
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I would ditch him!!
by: Anonymous

If mine did that, I would kick him to the curb!

First of all, he is showing you no respect but looking at you as a piece of meat to service him and the other men;

secondly, the chances of you getting a STD is very high;

third, you are outnumbered by these men, if sex got a little rough or totally rough, you do not have a fighting chance!

I wish you the best of luck and put your health, welfare and self-esteem first!!

Apr 12, 2018
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Did you ask him about it?
by: Hervy

Sounds like someone who might have gotten into porn. I really cant think of another thing that could inspire that desire.

The only way to know for sure though is to ask about it.

Let him know how you feel. Think through and write down in advance how you plan to say this. The way that you ask could determine the honesty in the answer.

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