My fiance wants to team drive...not our original plans

I'm confused. This is the exact opposite of what we talked about... 3 days a month. Can I do 3 days a month?

We were supposed to start a family soon. But 3 days a month?! That's about a month out of the year that I'll actually get to see my husband.

That means putting off a baby. But it also means he gets to live his dream, and make the money he swears we need. What to do?

Help?