My trucker likes porn...

by Katie
(Browning Mo)

My fiance is gone for a week at a time and is only home 1 maybe 2 days if we're lucky. I've been finding on his phone porn. I tried talking to him about it but, he says "oh i don't watch porn".

Kimi (our 3 year old) must have stumbled upon it when she was playing on it. He also gets very defensive when I say something about it.

He also calls me immature when i tell him how it makes me feel. I asked him if we could watch it together if anything and he tells me no.

I don't know how to go about this. Any help would be GREAT!

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Sep 05, 2018
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by: Anonymous

My boyfriend started doing it too now that he us a truck driver and its not right. Before this job we hardly ever had relations. Now he's doing this and don't care if we do. I think this leads to cheating. As soon as you start looking this shit up all these hook up sites pop up for casual sex.They'll be picking up hookers next or just fucking dirty sluts.
Sep 05, 2018
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by: Anonymous

My boyfriend started doing it too now that he us a truck driver and its not right. Before this job we hardly ever had relations. Now he's doing this and don't care if we do. I think this leads to cheating. As soon as you start looking this shit up all these hook up sites pop up for casual sex.They'll be picking up hookers next or just fucking dirty sluts.
Dec 08, 2015
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by: Anonymous

he is a trucker, he does not have a normal 9 to 5 job and home every night. my trucker watches porn.... hell... so do i. my advice to you is to just relax, he could be cheating. he can't give you a std or get someone pregnant by watching porn and masterbating. chill out
May 29, 2014
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by: chapman_d

I went through this same thing with my husband (boyfriend at the time). At first, nothing fixed it, then when I finally told him I WANTed to watch it with him, we did & now we are not having that problem.

If this doesn't work maybe you should let him see you watching it yourself & see if that changes his attitude or perspective?
Apr 19, 2014
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by: Average joe

I work the same same schedule as your mate, and had the same issue come up with my wife. He'll, I even denied it the same as your mate. So let me give you "our" two cents.

The reason I denied watching porn to my wife is because I was down right embarrassed. I explained to my wife that masturbation helped me remove pent up stress that accrues hourly OTR. It has nothing to do with feelings, or lack of feelings for my mate. Understand that men are typically aroused all time....shoot, if the wind blows just right, we get an erection.... Don't make him drive for several days without blowing a load or two...
Dec 15, 2013
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by: Anonymous

Your fiancé is a trucker! What did you expect him to be an altar boy? Your fiancé is fitting the perfect stereotypical person! Truck driver is a 11-letter word & so is who're chaser & scant chaser! I lmao over your post!
Dec 15, 2013
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by: Anonymous

If you get so defensive about people's comments about calling your fiancé & father of your child a pedophile, then don't post at all! This is a public forum & there will be nice people & nasty people. And about the 1 that posted about skypeing & having your fiancé focus on you may not be the answer. I have a guy on my bowling team that got divorced after 20 years of marriage & why???? Because his wife was supporting him financially, she was making $200,000.00 a year & was giving all her attention to him & what did he do in return to pay her back but bring women to the bowling alley & have them all over him & she found out somehow & now he is on his own! Good luck!
Dec 09, 2013
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by: Anonymous

@anon Damn he fucking lied. Get it through your thick skull. Don't go causing worse scenarios out of peoples lives because yours is so boring. The guys no pedo.

There's no trouble here except that they can't talk about the situation. Which is natural. He wants to protect what feels natural to him (watching porn alone on his truck) and any conversation y'all have is gonna lead to him having to a) quit to protect your feelings b) lie and hide it to protect your feelings c) argue over what he's done; which is either hide and lie about it or blatantly do it.

If you want to have a mature discussion you're gonna have to be willing to be wrong.
Dec 02, 2013
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by: Anonymous

Okay so I think we're jumping to conclusions with the previous comment it could have very well been an accident. The true issue is him respecting your feelings since you have stated it bothers you that he's doing this. My husband is a trucker and I will say you have to be a bit creative if you want to keep him away from things like that, but it may interest him more if you send him sexy pictures of yourself ever so often in lingerie or potentially call him talking dirty. Bottom line is you have to be as creative as you can possibly be to keep the spark and keep his interest in just you. By the way Skype does wonders for our marriage....hope this helps!!
Dec 02, 2013
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by: Anonymous

DO NOT come here and tell me my fiance, my daughter father is a pedophile. He is NOT and I fucking repeat NOT! He used her as an excuse. Saying she was playing on it.she has not and I repeat has NOT played on his phone. Its not your fault for thinking this. I should have worded this differently. But I will say thisagain. HE is NOT a pedophile.
Dec 01, 2013
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by: Anonymous

if he knows he has porn on his phone and he is allowing his 3 year old to play with a phone that has porn on it, I would be more worried about that???? that is plain sick....be aware that individuals who allow children to watch porn on purpose or so called on accident have the potential to be more than just a watcher of porn they are called pedophiles......quit worrying about your feelings and protect your child first!!!

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