Why truck driver doesn't have sex with wife when home?

by Mel
(Orlando FL)

My husband drove over the road for 2 years. When he came home once a month he didn't want to have sex. If we tried he would go limp.

I found that he was calling escorts but claimed they never hooked up. I want to know from a truck driver, was he cheating or just too tired?

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Jun 27, 2013
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Amazing story NEW
by: Anonymous

well it looks like you know what to do next you didn't need any advice from here?

Jun 27, 2013
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No lack of sexual desire NEW
by: Anonymous

He had enough desire to look at porn and call escorts though. Money was always missing, came home with glitter all over him all the time, and boy let me tell you the laundry had its own stories! Lol. In my heart I felt me was using escorts and now I learn he looked them up long before he became a truck driver but still claims he never actually hooked up with one. I called one that I found out about and she said they didn't do anything but watch out cause she said he has lots of experience with escorts. The night he called her he came home and showered right away after work a (Unusual for him) after realizing I was in the mood. Said he just wanted to please me and not get anything for him. We didn't have sex for 5 months due to him not wanting me the last few months of my pregnancy and healing after. 5 months and he didn't want anything for him out of it. Yeah right! He did change his mind though but I noticed his penis looked like it was rubbed raw. Two months later still denies everything but calling them. 8 years we have been together and I must have been blind. He turned out to be everything he said he wasn't. :(

Jun 27, 2013
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other causes NEW
by: Anonymous

it could be medical. does he have high blood pressure? does he take any medication? how old is he? lets not all jump to conclusions...see if he needs medical help first. he could very well be depressed and there are different stages of depression. and not all depressed people act in the same way as each other. one sign of depression is lack of desire for sex. truckers are prone to depression...it is a high stress job, just ask your doctor or go online and search for moods directly related to depression. if he refuses to seek medical help it may be denial of depression...are you connected with a church or family doctor for a proper diagnosis? try it you might find out it doesn't always mean he is cheating. If you find out he is cheating well you know what you need to do, you don't need to end up with a medical condition either! STD's

Jun 26, 2013
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no such thing as too tired NEW
by: Anonymous

Well unfortunately i can almost bet the house that he is getting his sex from somewhere else. No man keeps escort or even have escort phone numbers and don't use them. A month without sex he would be all over you when he came home tired or not. Those are the facts coming from a driver who has been driving for 23 years.

Jun 26, 2013
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Sorry NEW
by: Anonymous

Very sorry to hear of your situation, however, I believe you already know the answer.

It is said -- Often the answer lies in the question; take heed of what caused you to ask the question and within that rests the heart of your concern.

Wishing you the best of luck!

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