wife of the trucker in question . I am disabled after 30 years of Nursing RN

by Cheryl Baker
(Lugoff, SC 29078)

Me this year 2018 at 62 years old

My husband has a trainer but refuses to tell me 1. what company he is working for.
2. refuses to send me a picture of him in front of the truck and with / or without the trainer. He says he is employed with USA trucking.

However USA trucking(a real - life person) called our house Friday march 16 inquiring about Michael J.Sele (my husband) and a potential job with USA Trucking!

He left a trucking job after only 9 days telling me there was trainer conflict and he was being bussed to Memphis, Tenn for a different trainer.

I know for a fact that a company does not change trainers lol by sending you home and then busing you to a diff location. We have had a very difficult past 8 years.

He will not send me anything to verify where he is employed. FYI he graduated in 2015 may from Iowa trucking and only worked a few jobs... FYI he h as 4 ineligible for rehire jobs.!!!!!!

Please help me.
Cheryl L Baker.

Thxxx

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Jul 24, 2019
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Alone and Happy 😊 NEW
by: Anonymous

Hi Update 😊 Thanks be to my LORD GOD! My estranged husband has not spent one night in my house in over a year! I'm free from the narcissistic abuse/cruelty! People need to know what NPD is & how widespread. Trucking is an easy way to hide, wink, but there ain't no hiding place from Father of Creation.Every morning is a GIFT and I'm Free, learning to love me. Blessings to all of you for your comments.PS oh, he still has me on his radar for hoovering but funny part I don't care no more. Love 💝🕊️ Peace

Mar 22, 2018
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Addendum
by: Anonymous

Tonight after not hearing a word for 9 hours he spent 1 1/2 hours @ dinner yet upon my mentioning it spent 3 minutes on video call with me yes Hervey.

I may not have much money now. I know in my heart my God disapproves of this!! Thank you welcome any additional advice.

Mar 22, 2018
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Response to ? Hermey .
by: Anonymous

Yes we r married he lies pathologically , neglectful, verbally & physically abusive with no remorse.no empathy even when my 39 yr old daughter died suddenly in Oklahoma.after 8 yrs of living in this hostile,non loving even now proof I have of adultery and sleeping separate rooms he is using me clearly as a place to live..I do trust in my Heavenly Father.

I know all truth prevails. Any advice I already appreciate.scary to have a sociopath\pathological liar living in my house

Mar 19, 2018
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He wants to avoid responsibility
by: Anonymous

Get a lawyer, Hon. He doesn't want to share anything with you any more and it sounds like on the top of that list is whatever or how much he is earning.

He has no integrity.

Mar 19, 2018
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How can we help
by: Hervy

I don't really see how we can help here. Yall seem to have issues much more serious than trucking which require counseling.

Doesn't really seem as though he would be interested. Does he want to be married?

If so thats your leverage for counseling.

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